Dec 8 2006 08:56 pm
Depression. How to fight it...I've slipped in and out of it, yet, I always end back in.
You should know who this is...:(
ThePieMan...
Dec 6 2006 07:41 pm
Fine. Don't help me. It's been 12 days! Remind me not to come to you for advice again.
~Sam</3
Dec 1 2006 04:56 pm
well? are u going to help me? Or just leave me hanging?
~Sam
Nov 24 2006 07:43 pm
i need help. its about saul, the guy i like. I don't know whats happening to me! I mean, I really really REALLY like him. I barely know him but i do. it hurts...a lot. we talk sometimes, but basically he doesn't notice me and he'd never like me or go out with me. I played a card game that was supposed to find your soul mate....and guess what? mine was Saul. but its just a game...it hurts so much. I don't know what to do...I'm so confused..I'm usually the one who gives advice and helps people. Now I'm the one that needs the help.
sigh...i'm so confused
"She wants the pain to go away
She wants it all to end
Wondering why love hurts this much
And why her heart won't mend"
~Sam
</3
Oct 30 2006 10:49 pm
Hiya k,
Imma calling you that, i know you wanna go by Karmen...but i LOVE K! anyways....my friend is dating this HORRID guy, like he treats her like dirt hates all of her friends and tell her that he's in love but he controls everything she does, what she wears, what she eats, who she hangs out with, when she goes out yada yada yada, and well me and my pals have tried everything but she won;t listen, she has built her life around him, and he;s crazy, he has anger issues and the day is coming when he finally hits her, i just want her not be the girl that gets struck,..,.
SnowBird, ya'll know me (PS I Typed this in a hurry cuz i gotta sca-doodle to bed)
Oct 22 2006 05:45 pm
Hey Karmz!
Thanks for your advice about "you-know-who". haha i really appreciate it
~Sam M
Oct 22 2006 05:21 pm
if u want real advice, go to my friend Sam Middleton's site. Then go to the Help page.
~another Sam
Oct 18 2006 05:14 pm
ur advice is shit
Sep 13 2006 08:33 pm
Aww, I'm so glad, Snowbird.
<33
-Arwen-Rashka-
Sep 4 2006 01:37 am
Sorry i haven't been here for a while
Gosh i forgot about him like that...my heart does love him but we are bestfriends....i currently found some one alot better suited...
<3 u k.
Snowbird
Jan 22 2006 11:58 am
(from "con'd")
However, you ever took your future with him into consideration? What about the present? Do you know how old the excuses become that you tell your friends and family? "Oh dear, how did you get that bruise by your eye?" - "Well, Mom you know how things get left on the stairs? I basically was not paying attention and slipped on one. And feel back hitting the railing, the wall, and the last step." Come on! The only thing you can do is leave him, he is not worth dying for. You can not stay with him in hopes that he will change. He will have to take the first step.
It's always hard getting out of a relationship. And you will miss being close to him. Or at least close to someone. Give yourself time to heal and keep your promise to your fiends. Let that be your first step in not getting involved again. Cutting contact with him for a while will most likely help. Take as long as you like to heal.
I'm praying for you,
-Arwen-Rashka-
Jan 22 2006 11:58 am
Hey Original Snowbird, glad to see you back on the site.
Are you sure you love him? Do you love him for who he is... an inconsiderate boy who treats people, like you, like dirt. Yeah, great personality if you ask me. Note the sarcasm.
Do you love him? Or just love the attention from him? Maybe you just love the role of being someones girlfriend and having someone to love. You know that it's not going to work out. No matter how hard you try, he's still going to treat you like dirt, and even if he stopped under some miracle, wouldn't you always be afraid that he was going to hurt you again?
Do you enjoy feeling like everything is your fault? The only thing you will gain out of this is emotional pain. There is nothing fun in continuing to be with someone who says "I love you baby", and turns around beats you like you tried to kill him. You promised your friends you would not get involved again, obviously you took a stand to get out. You must have got an epiphany, but it must not have been a good enough one to make you move on with your life.
(Con'd)
Jan 14 2006 07:04 pm
Whoa sumone else used my 'snowbird' im the original...:s
Okay i need this
I Love a boy, but he continualy hurts me, and i promised my friends i wouldn't get involed again, but its 2 difficult...i love him and long 2 be with him...even though he treats me like dirt...
Original Snowbird
Dec 3 2005 11:55 am
If he's shallow do you think it will last. Truthfully think to yourself about even if you did get together, would you be happy? And could you see it lasting a year or longer?
...leave it to your own good judgement and don't forget to follow your heart AND your brain...
Nov 25 2005 07:50 pm
Why hello
this is kinda boy trobles
okay well see i really like this guy
but he is way shallow
except everytime i see him he is staring at me
or lookign at me until i turn the corner
so i dont understand and he knows i liek him
and he acts liek he likes me too
Please help me
Nov 13 2005 09:35 am
Advice to all of you: Use this Page Only For Asking Advice
Nov 2 2005 10:55 pm
I think I will use the pseudonym Snow-Bird, as my thoughts are similair for this name.
I wanted to ask, sincerely ask, if you are Christian then why do you put up signs of death and suicide and the marks of a sinful past on your site? Doesn't being a Christian mean that you set your mind on heavenly things?
Even on your lists of ten's, you state that you hate Dr. Lori Carpenter for asking you to go to a counsellor. The thing I want to ask is why? She want's you to get help. You say you're content. In what? Content in the discontent? Content in your, to put it bluntly, hypocritical state of mind?
Ms. Lori wanted you to get help, and in your religion, Christ wants to do the same, unless I've been reading the bible really wrong. So have you shut out Christ for wanting to lend a helping hand?
Seriously kid, I wouldn't give out advice on topics that are above you. You realize when you put yourself in that position of leader, you are held accountable for every word you say? Seeing these pictures displaying your already unstable life, how can you manage to think you could handle the pressures of a leader?
I mean, I like your Dr. Phil, cookie-cutter answers on all these people asking advice on their relationships, but there's a little thing I learned in my days of the church; before you can change a nation, you must change yourself.
I'm sorry kid, but I agree with the former snow-bird; it's hard to take advice from someone who can't even manage their own life.
Nov 1 2005 07:49 pm
hiya :P
okay...Boy Troubles...My boyfriend and me well we jsut got back together...today i told him i really wish i could see him and he got all creeped out.... i was almost crying...when he had to go off msn he siad i gots to go i said bye xo...no reply back....i dont know if he really feels the same for me and i do for him..i think he still might like his x-gf....HELP ME PLEASE
Zee.....Catastrophic.....Orob....Of....Humane.......Identies
Oct 5 2005 07:09 pm
He's cheating on this other girl with you. No matter HOW much you and him love each other, it simply isn't fair to the other girl.
Let your conscience help you out with this one. I think you know what to do...
-Arwen-Rashka-
Oct 5 2005 07:07 pm
YOu can put a fake name, or simply don't sign it. Then ask anything you want. :)
Oct 1 2005 02:04 pm
soo do we just make a name up soo know one knows who it is and then ask for addvice
Sep 29 2005 02:05 pm
Hey there okay i need Major relationship help
Okay say u are dating a guy secretly bihind his parents backs but he is also dating another girl in public in stuff but he love you more than he will ever love her should u tell him that u aren't gonna do that and make him tell his other girlfriend that they are over or what help me pleae!?
-<3 the fairy of Doom
Sep 28 2005 09:28 pm
You sound like a person I used to know. They went to a horrible Middle school... and other stories I've heard about that middle school are BRUTAL! But the only thing that she could do was to not talk to them. Talking to them was the thing that made them not like her as much, and it gave them a reason not to like her.
She crept in the corners with her few friends all year, and the next year, when she left, was awesome.
A good thing to do would be to find empty classrooms at lunchtime and hang around in those. After school, get home (or at least away) as soon as possible.
Don't listen to the threats, and if they DO hurt you, you have the satisfaction of knowing they never will again, because you'll be out of that school.
Good luck,
-Arwen-Rashka-
Sep 25 2005 01:59 pm
there are a bunch of peole who go to my school i have no idea who they are but they are gonna hurt me i have no idea what to do and i am so scared and liek if it happens have no idea how hurt i will be. And my parents wont let me switch schools until after i get hurt wtf should i do i have no idea
love
The White Fairy
Sep 8 2005 10:31 pm
If you aren't totally in love with this guy, maybe it's alright if you two break up.
Even if you want to die, I know you can make it through, because humans were made strong. Even if you feel weak, know that you can get through this. (Without death or cutting or suicide)
The other guy who you like who is "perfect for you". Are you sure he's perfect for you? How do you know? And what if he's also perfect for his girlfriend? Maybe he's just that perfect kind of guy.
He chose her, and all you can do is make your feelings known to this other guy and see who he chooses.
You have plenty of time to find a guy. A sly eye, good friends, and a hopeful heart is what will get you through in the end.
Good luck, White Fairy.
-Arwen-Rashka-
Sep 7 2005 08:23 pm
hey there
what do you do if you love a guy and he loves you back but there is one problem.... HIS PARENTS they won't let him date younger girls so i went out with him behind there backs. but they found out the other night and now we have to breka up again and i can't stand to go through another breka up like that again and i relaly just want to die and i can't take it anymore because the other guy i like who is prefect for me is dating another what in the world should i do
Love
White Fairy
Sep 3 2005 03:54 pm
what should i do. i went behind my boyfriend and my best friends back. But her boyfriend keeps tell ing to forget what happened but i can't. what should i do should i tell them both or just forget about it. i don't want to lose one of my bestfriends and my boyfriend.
HELP me please
sincerly
confuzzled Chick
Aug 25 2005 12:03 am
Get over my boyfriend. You're dating Tom. There's your advice.
(L) yahz girl!
Aug 17 2005 10:29 pm
Imeant to say if i started Dating one of them which wasn't one one for me
(L)
buzzled Brain
Aug 17 2005 09:59 pm
hello there
what do you do if the 2 guys you like both have girlfriends but you don't know how they relationships are going. and one of them is your best friends boyfriend and than the other is his best friend. than your friends boyfriend says that his best friend liked you but never said anything because he was suppose to startdating his girlfriend now. but they are breaking up is what i have heard but i like both of them and i like on more than the other but i have no idea what would happen if i did start dating the one i like ever. i need Advice
(L)
buzzled brain
Jul 27 2005 11:05 pm
It was I!!!!!
Jul 27 2005 11:01 pm
Snow-bird
Hey, thanks for your... hopefully sincere... concern, but I think I've had all the 'help' I need. I'm serious. One day of prefessional help and I was just about ready to move the date of killing myself to that day!
Thanks, but I find help. I'm not sure if you know this yet (but you say you know me, so you SHOULD know), but I'm Christian. I find my help through God, and I also have friends, like Tyler and Justin (my awesome boyfriend whom I love soo soo much) who give me advice and keep me happy. But I'm a moody person, that's the only reason I get sad sometimes... (and any other reason I find)
And can you please reveal who you are? You're confusing me! :p
Arwen-Rashka
Jul 24 2005 07:45 pm
Arwen-Rashka
I'm not saying you don't have the ability too help others, just you seem so giving that you b4 you give anymore away you should ask for some of your own help, cause i hate seeing ppl who are in pain who don't need to be
PS you do know me, i'm just being secretive heh heh heh, and if i sounded like a bitch i'm sorry, im not really
Snow-Bird
Jul 23 2005 11:11 pm
Snow-Bird,
Heya, I'm not sure if I know you, but hiya. What do you mean by saying I need help myself? Actually, yah, I was screwed up before, but I'm quite content now. Thanks for the thought.
But yes. But what you're saying isn't true. Just because someone has problems of thier own, doesn't mean that they should ignore others and not try to help them. I mean, if I say something, and it helps someone else, then I get happy.
Thanks for posting though
Arwen-Rashka
Jul 23 2005 07:13 pm
Okay, im just saying this why do you have an advice coloum, when your site, it seems like your the one in-need of advice, how about you take this advice, help your self be for you help others?
Snow-Bird
Jul 9 2005 10:26 pm
Ashley
Is the only joy of sex the sex itself? Or is it the person you have it with? 'cause I have to warn you, if you have it with a boyfriend of yours and then you two break up, you can usually never become friends again, and if you have sex with someone else, there are dangers of STD's, and some will KILL YOU, and you will also always be comparing it to last time.
A survey by Better Health Canada revealed:
Those who lost their virginity at an early age were more likely to have left school before the end of Year 10.
I'd suggest that you shouldn't just because you're feeling aroused. You're 15! You have tons of time! And have you seen those "really ugly" people with boyfriends and wondered how they got them? Well, I'm not sure, but they did, so there's hope for you yet.
You have the rest of your life to find someone. Why stress yourself now?
Jul 9 2005 11:25 am
If i am 15 and i really want to have sex but... i am still a Virgin and I am tooo UGLY for anyone. I wanna have sex soon. what should i do? Please help me......
Ashley
Jul 6 2005 04:01 pm
To Elisabeth:
Because the guy you 'love' doesn't love you for who you are. He shouldn't try to make you change the way you are. It sounds like this guy has a perfect girl in mind (an obviously very naughty perfect girl), and he's trying to make-do with you for the time being. He's trying to mold you into his idea of a fun, gorgeous girl.
As nice as he may sometimes be to you, the truth is, he's not a nice guy. It's not up to him to decide what you do with your hair, and it's not up to any guy whether you want to give him a bj or not. He's obviously not that great, and you deserve better.
My advice? He doesn't deserve you and tell him you just want to "Be Friends" with NO BENIFITS for him. Let him buy a prostitute if he wants a bj.
Love always,
Arwen Rashka
Jul 3 2005 08:17 pm
y should the guy i like care what i do with my hair even if it long and curly or straight y is up to him to decide what i do with my hair. Also y should the guy i love going into grade nine try to get me to give him a bj??
ÜElisabethÜ
Jun 27 2005 05:07 pm
Sorry, thought it was. And the IP addresses on this page have been turned off, so you don't have to worry about getting caught now.
Jun 25 2005 05:21 pm
that was not me!
Jun 25 2005 12:15 pm
Well Nick, (learn to spell "does"!)
Basically, according to the almighty Alicia, someone asks a question regarding a situation, and I reply I guess. Hey, it's not MY idea! :P
Jun 25 2005 12:40 am
how douse this work???
